Choose to Begin Again

Choices change lives…

By Barbara Dahlgren

Every day is a new beginning. In other words, today is the first day of the rest of your life, don’t screw it up. Each day is a new day to practice making wise choices.

Many wait until a New Year comes to make resolutions. That’s not a bad idea. But it’s actually day-to-day living that eventually helps us live better lives year to year. However, day-to-day living cannot fully rely on our resolve because our resolve just isn’t good enough. God in His infinite wisdom knows we need extra help living our daily lives and fortunately He provides it.

Sometimes life is so burdensome that it’s hard not to get discouraged. But God tells us not to lose heart. Things may not appear to be going so well, but 2 Corinthians 4:16 tells us, “…inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” Re-new means to make new again.

Each day is a new day. Each day is an opportunity to renew our resolve. This is important to keep in mind when those New Year’s resolutions don’t reap the results we hope for. It’s day-to-day living that helps us live better lives year to year.

When we fall, we get up and face a new day. Each day we take up our cross and follow Jesus (Luke 9:23). God gives us what we need to make it through each day—our daily bread (Matthew 6:11; Luke 11:3). Paul said he died daily (1 Corinthians 15:31). He recommitted to the sacrifice Jesus made for Him daily. God’s mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:23).

Consider this… Each day we put off our old self and put on our new self (Ephesians 4:22-24). And we keep putting it on day after day after day after day. It’s not a one-time deal.

One final thought… Try repeating this at the beginning of each new day: “Today is the first day of the rest of my life!” Then don’t screw it up. If you do, then start over again the next day. Nobody said that life would be easy.

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Choose to Celebrate the Birth of Christ

Choices change lives…

By Barbara Dahlgren

People keep or observe Christmas for a few reasons. For adults, it’s a time for families to get together. For parents, it’s a time to give gifts to their children. For children, it’s time to get presents. For Christians, it’s all of these plus a time to celebrate the birth of Christ.

The birth of Christ is very significant. Yet, long before His birth there was something wonderful – the promise of His coming and the promise of redemption for mankind which was all foretold in Scripture.

Psalm 130:7-8 told us, “O Israel, put your hope in the Lord, for with the Lord is unfailing love and with Him is full redemption. He Himself will redeem Israel from all their sins.”

Jeremiah 23:4-6 said a day was coming when God would raise up a king who would reign wisely and do what was right. His name would be “The Lord Our Righteousness.”

Isaiah 9:6-7 told us, “Unto us a child will be born, to us a Son is given, and the government will be on His shoulders. He will be called: Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, and Prince of Peace.”

Isaiah 11:2-5 said the Spirit of the Lord would rest on Him, and the spirit of wisdom, understanding, counsel, power, knowledge, fear of the Lord. He would not judge by what He saw or heard but with righteousness.

Over 300 prophecies were fulfilled through the birth of Jesus, His life, His ministry, His death and resurrection. Not just the promise of Christ’s coming was revealed in Scripture, but the details of how it would take place. This miraculous event was not some afterthought, but totally planned by God.

He would be from the tribe of Judah (Genesis 49:10/Luke 3:3), a descendant of Abraham (Genesis 12:3/Matthew 1:1), Isaac (Genesis 17:19/Luke 3:24), Jacob (Numbers 24:17/Matthew 1:2), Jesse (Isaiah 11:10/Romans 15:12), and David (Jeremiah 23:5-6/Matthew 1:1).  

He would be born of a woman (Genesis 3:15/Galatians 4:4), a virgin (Isaiah 7:11/Luke 1:26-31), in Bethlehem (Micah 5:2/Luke 2:4-7), worshipped by shepherds (Psalm 72:9/Luke 2:8-15), and honored by kings (Psalm 72:10,17/Isaiah 60:3/Matthew 2:1-11). The slaughter of children (Jeremiah 31:15/Matthew 2:16-18) and flight to Egypt (Hosea 11:1/Matthew 2:14-15) were foretold as well. The list goes on and on.

Christ’s birth was significant! It was so significant that the world splits history, calendars, and timelines into two segments: BC which means before Christ and AD which means “in the year of our Lord” indicating after Christ was born.

To show the significance of Christ being born, an angel was sent by God on the night of His birth to announce His arrival (Luke 2:10-11). “Do not be afraid, I bring you good tidings of joy which will be to all people. For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior who is Christ the Lord.” Sounds like a reason to celebrate to me!

Christ is the Savior for all, so I don’t worry too much about those who keep Christmas without focusing on Christ. They may not even know Christ yet. However, they are actually celebrating a holiday about Christ’s birth. They may try to say that’s not what they are celebrating, but how can they get around it? Christmas literally means Christ’s Mass. So, ironically, whether people want it to or not, it commemorates and celebrates Christ’s birth!

Consider this… The true gift of Christmas won’t be found under a tree, but in the presence of Jesus in our lives. That’s why, as we celebrate, we thank God for this indescribable gift (2 Corinthians 9:15). This gift of Christ was sent not to condemn us, but to redeem us (John 3:17). His name is Emmanuel which means God with us. We never have to be afraid or feel alone again.

One final thought… Christ is our good tidings of joy, sent for all people – from the poorest shepherd to the richest Magi! To me, that’s something to celebrate!

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Choose to Receive Graciously

Choices change lives…

By Barbara Dahlgren

The Bible says it is more blessed to give than receive (Acts 20:35). Although it is more blessed to give, there are times when it is blessed to receive as well.

Some people are too proud to receive anything from anybody. They don’t want to feel obligated to another person. They don’t want others to think they need anything. Some of these people are generous givers, but don’t know how to receive.

Some people can’t even receive a sincere compliment. Instead of just graciously saying, “Thank you,” they make up excuses as to why they don’t deserve the compliment. It’s as if they think if they accept the compliment, they aren’t humble enough. Or they immediately try to reciprocate with another compliment which is usually insincere because they are only reciprocating, not really giving a genuine compliment. Let’s face it— some days our hair really does look good so when some bald guy says, “Hey, I like your hair style!” we don’t need to say, “I like yours, too!”

Just as giving should be part of our lives, so should receiving. When we can’t receive genuine, heartfelt gifts, appreciation, help, or compliments from others, we rob them of blessings.

Jesus was the greatest giver. He gave up His life for us. But did you know Jesus knew how to receive as well. When Mary anointed His feet with expensive perfume, He accepted it graciously (John 12:1-8). The disciples were shocked because the ointment was worth a lot of money and could have been sold to help the poor. Yet, Jesus accepted this gift in the spirit it was given.

Jesus taught the disciples a lesson in serving others when He insisted on washing their feet at the Last Supper (John 13:14-15). However, this was a lesson in receiving as well. Peter did not want Jesus to wash his feet, but Jesus said that unless Peter received this act of service from Him, Peter could have no part of Him (John 13:4-10).

God has gifts for us to receive, but sometimes we refuse to accept them. God wants us to receive forgiveness of sin. We already have it, but we need to acknowledge and receive it. Unless we do we will never be able to experience the fullness of a relationship with Him. 

Consider this… Jesus could have fed the multitudes with manna from heaven. After all, it had been done before. Instead, he let a little boy give up his lunch and share what he had with others (John 6:5-14).

One final thought… We should always give with an open heart. We need to learn to receive the same way.

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Choose to Give

Choices change lives…

By Barbara Dahlgren

Scripture says it is more blessed to give than receive (Acts 20:35). How many of us are givers?

At first we may think scriptures about giving only refer to giving money to the church. While it’s true that many passages do speak of this kind of stewardship, the biblical principle of giving runs much deeper – such as giving cheerfully and generously of everything God has given us.

For example, in Old Testament times people were expected to give 10% or a tithe of everything they earned back to God. In the New Testament they were encouraged to give, but no fixed amount was given. They were exhorted to give according to how God had prospered them or how much they loved God. The decision was theirs to make. However, they should bear two things in mind. They should give cheerfully, not out of a sense of obligation or reluctance (2 Corinthians 9:7) and they should give generously. If we “sow” sparingly, we will “reap” sparingly (2 Corinthians 9:6). In other words, we shouldn’t expect God to be generous with us if we aren’t generous with others. This applies in all areas of our lives.

God expects us to give to others because God has given to us! Every gift and blessing we have come from God and God expects us to share them all with others (James 1:7). Jesus gave instructions to His disciples in Matthew 10:8: “…freely you have received, freely give.” When we share what God has given us with others, it glorifies God.

Giving is a basic biblical principle for every aspect of our lives. We should be giving to God, plus we should be giving and sharing what God has given us with others.

What can we give to God who has everything? Here are some ideas…

  • Our love
  • Our trust
  • Our thanks
  • Our praise and worship
  • Our bodies as a living sacrifice (Romans 12:1)

What have we freely received from God that we can share with others? Here are some ideas…

  • The good news about Jesus Christ
  • Acceptance
  • Joy
  • Peace
  • Patience
  • Kindness
  • Comfort
  • Forgiveness
  • Hope

What can we give to others? Here are some ideas…

  • Our time
  • Our talents
  • Our energy
  • Benefit of the doubt
  • Our prayers
  • A smile
  • Encouragement

I’m sure we can all add to these lists.

Consider this old adage… We make a living by what we get out of life but we make a life by what we give.

Studies show that givers improve their overall mental health, have a more positive outlook and improve relationships with others. So be a giver. It’s a win/win/win scenario. It’s good for you. It’s good for others. God loves it!

One final thought…  Remember these words of Anne Frank: “No one has ever become poor by giving.”

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Choose to Use Your Access to God Wisely

Choices change our lives…

By Barbara Dahlgren

Hebrews 4:16 says, “Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace…”

Years ago I heard a sermon about this verse. The preacher wasn’t totally advocating a “name it and claim it,” “blab it and grab it,” or “health and wealth” gospel, but he did give the impression we should boldly ask God for what we want and if it’s good for us, good for everyone around us, and just plain good – God will give it to us.

Well, that’s what I did… and guess what? God didn’t give me what I wanted. Imagine my disappointment! My faith was a bit shaken because I felt like I was taking a giant leap of faith to make a request boldly. I also felt like my lack of faith prevented me from getting it.

Is our faith a bit wobbly when God doesn’t give us what we want – when clearly we know it would be the best for everyone concerned?

Ah…but do we really know what is the best for everyone? We may think we do, but maybe we don’t. God sees all and knows all. Only He knows what is best for everyone! Is it our lack of faith that prevents a request, or God’s faithfulness to doing what is best that makes the difference?

So what does it mean to come boldly before the throne of grace?

Actually this passage isn’t about our boldness – at least not the kind of boldness we associate with this word – like being brash, brave, or daring. The whole passage is letting us know we can have an intimate relationship with Jesus Christ, our High Priest. We have direct access to Jesus Christ! We don’t need to go through another person like a priest, a minister, a guru, a psychic, or an angel to get to God. This direct access thing is a big deal and was not really possible for the common man before the death of Christ.

In Old Testament times, the High Priest was the mediator between God and the people. Only he could enter the Holy of Holies in the temple (Hebrews 9:7). The Holy of Holies was a special place, considered the earthly dwelling place for God’s presence. A veil or thick curtain divided it from the rest of the temple, where man could dwell.

However, when Jesus died for our sins, that veil or curtain was miraculously “rent” or torn from top to bottom (Matthew 27:50-51). God no longer dwells in temples made of hands (Acts 17:24). The way to God the Father is not through the temple, but through Christ His Son, because Jesus is now our High Priest (Hebrews 10:19-22).

And Jesus, our High Priest, came to earth, lived among us, and totally understands everything we go through (Hebrews 4:14-16). He feels our pain. He knows our weaknesses and temptations. So when we talk to Him, He “gets” us! He understands us. He knows where we are coming from.

Therefore, we can come “boldly” before Him.

The Greek word for boldly here is “parrhesia” and it means to be frank, outspoken, and even blunt. We can tell Jesus exactly how we feel. It’s not about making bold requests we want God to fulfill like some big sugar daddy in the sky. It’s about being honest without fear of reprisal. It’s about pouring our hearts out to the One who understands and having confidence in Him to do the best thing for us. We come boldly to Him so we can obtain mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need (Hebrews 4:16).

Consider this… We don’t have to worry that we are praying in the wrong way, at the wrong time, or with the wrong stance. We have a High Priest who looks beyond all that to our hearts. God doesn’t want to punish us; He wants us to realize how much He loves us!

One final thought… You see, it’s not our faith or lack of faith that makes the difference in our prayers; it’s God’s faithfulness!

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Choose to Prayerfully Thank God

Choices change lives…

By Barbara Dahlgren

Psalm 118:1 says, “Give thanks to the Lord for He is good. For His mercy endures forever.”

Psalm 100:4, 5 says: “Be thankful to God and bless His name. For the Lord is good; His mercy is everlasting; and His truth endures forever.”

Every day is filled with opportunities to be thankful. How much more should we focus on God’s blessings at this special time of year? Here’s a little prayer to get your started…

Lord, we would like to thank You for meeting our needs everyday – for food and shelter and clothing. And for the many extras You provide that we so often take for granted.

Lord, thank You for our families and friends who help make our lives complete. Thank You that even when we are miles away from our loved ones that we can be bound by the cords of Your love.

And Lord, we thank You that we live in a country where we are free to worship You and to read Your word.

And thank You Lord for hearing and answering our prayers. For being the one set of footprints in the sand that carry us when our burdens weigh us down.

And Father how we thank You for Your son, Jesus Christ, who is the “Light of the world.” When we turn to Him, He floods the darkness of our souls with the Light of Your love.

Thank You that Jesus not only died for our sins, but that He is alive today and at Your side. That He is our friend and brother and makes intercession for us.

And Lord we thank You that Jesus came into this world and made our hearts His home as our wonderful, merciful Savior – our precious Redeemer and Friend.

Thank You for all that you have given us as Christians. We have the Holy Spirit who is Your presence in our lives, the Bible that is a light unto our path, and Christian friends who encourage and help us.

We thank You Lord that we can face tomorrow with hope because Jesus is living for us today.

O Lord, how truly rich we are because of You. We aren’t coming before You now to ask for anything, but we just want to praise and worship You and thank You for ALL that You mean to us!

In Jesus’s name we dedicate this prayer of thanksgiving to YOU!  

Amen

Consider this… “If the only prayer you say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough.” ~Meister Eckhart

One final thought… It is good to give thanks unto the Lord (Psalm 92:1).

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Choose Not to Procrastinate

Choices change lives…

By Barbara Dahlgren

Procrastination is the name of the game and in my last blog you learned that I am very good at it. So good, in fact, I decided to continue with that theme. I have a myriad of excuses for not doing what I know I need to do, and they have served me well. Here are a few…   

“I’ll wait until I’m in the mood.” Being “genderly” prone to mood swings, I use this for my advantage. 

“I’ll do it tomorrow.” Known as the “mañana syndrome,” I believe in never doing today what I can put off until tomorrow.

“I’ll do it tomorrow if….” Known as the “contingent mañana syndrome,” this allows me to put a stipulation on whether or not I actually will do it tomorrow. For example: “I’ll do it tomorrow if the sun is shining” or “I’ll do it tomorrow if it is raining” or “I’ll do it tomorrow if half my street has sunshine and the other half has rain.”

“I work better under pressure.” This really is a half-truth. I will work under pressure, but I won’t work better under pressure.

“I don’t know where to begin.” I get overwhelmed if the project is big. This could lead to depression, so the easiest thing is not to start at all.

“It’s too hard.” Not being one who likes a challenge, I prefer to take the easy route, especially if I would have to get out of my comfort zone. When the going gets tough, I take a nap.

“It takes a special kind of knowledge and know-how that I don’t have.” Sure, I could actually learn something new, but why when I am so comfortable not learning something new. 

“It’s too time-consuming.” My time is so valuable that I don’t want to waste it doing anything too profitable. It might keep me from the more important things like surfing the net, playing video games, or watching mindless TV.

“I might mess it up.” If I don’t succeed at this, everyone will consider me a failure. My logic is simple: How can I fail if I never do anything?

“I need to have some fun.” A little escapism never hurt anyone. I deserve a break today. It will help me clear my head so I can start fresh.

“I need to relax.” I’m so tense! Perhaps I’ll read a little or listen to some music first. Then I’ll get started.   

“I’m lazy.” I know this kind of negative self-talk is unhealthy, but there’s no arguing with the truth. Actually, I love being lazy. Some people get bored easily, but I never tire of doing nothing.

“A lion might kill me.” I rely on this excuse heavily because it’s biblical. Proverbs 22:13 (NLT) says the lazy person is full of excuses, saying, “If I go outside, I might meet a lion in the street and be killed!” Well, I know I’m lazy, so I’d better lay low.

Procrastination is the one thing I’m really, really good at! However, just because we’re good at something doesn’t mean it’s good for us! We can be good at robbing banks, but eventually the law will catch up with us. Procrastination catches up with us, too! Our time runs out – and time cannot be regained. Procrastination not only robs us of our time but also our money, our productivity, our families, our friendships, our sense of worth, and our relationship with God.

Procrastination can make us lazy (Proverbs 13:4). Procrastination can keep us from putting first things first (Matthew 6:33). Procrastination can keep us from moving forward (Philippians 3:13-14). Procrastination can pull us away from God (James 4:17).

Consider this… God says to use our time wisely (Ephesians 5:16). We shouldn’t put off until tomorrow what should be done today, because tomorrow may never come.

One final thought… Today, right now, this moment is what we’ve been given and we need to make the most of it (Proverbs 27:1).

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Choose Not to Master the Art of Procrastination

Choices change our lives…

By Barbara Dahlgren

My ability to procrastinate amazes me. You might say I’ve mastered the art of procrastination— and I don’t recommend it, but I do have to deal with it. I can find more things to do to keep from doing what I need to do than anyone I know. Idleness is not my problem. I stay plenty busy, but I stay busy doing things I don’t need to do. Like the definition, I am the classic example of “putting off intentionally and habitually doing what should be done.” Sometimes I abhor myself for this trait so I will share my train of thought that leads me astray.

For example, as I wait for motivation to write, I might repeat some pithy sayings designed to motivate me to get started. I repeat them to myself as I sit at my computer with these results:

“The journey of a thousand miles starts with one step.” WOW! Just thinking about a thousand-mile journey makes me tired. You know, I didn’t get much sleep last night. Maybe I should take a nap and get started after I feel refreshed.

“To start is half the battle.” Oh, that reminds me that I wanted to record that documentary they are showing tonight on PBS about the Battle of Gettysburg. I better go set the DVR right now before I forget.

“Steady, slow, and consistent can accomplish more than brilliant spasms of work.” Brilliant! Yes, I want this thing I’m writing to be brilliant, but my mind doesn’t seem real sharp right now. I bet if I played a game of computer Solitaire it would sharpen my senses. Keeping the mind active helps ward off Alzheimer’s, you know.

“How do you eat an elephant?  One bite at a time!” That reminds me I skipped lunch. Maybe I should make myself a sandwich. Better yet, I’ll just pop out and get a burger. Where is that coupon I had for a dollar off the combo? After I eat, I’ll feel like working.

“Life is like a coin you can spend anyway you want, but you can only spend it once.” Maybe I should put all those coins I’ve been saving in that Mason jar in those little nickel, dime, and quarter wrappers, take them to the bank, and see how much I have. I could use the money to buy my burger.

“Don’t put off until tomorrow what you can do today.” Where is that to-do list I was making for tomorrow? I just thought of a few more things I need to put on it. Better put them on the list now before I forget. I just love checking off things on my to-do list when I get them done. But what did I do with that list???   

“No farmer ever plowed a field by turning it over in his head.” You know, my Uncle John is a farmer. He’s pretty old and I haven’t talked to him in a while. I think I’ll give him a call. I always feel so inspired after we chat.

“The road to hell is paved with good intentions.” Where is that Steve Greg book I was reading about hell, anyway? Maybe I should read a little of it. Hey, if there is anything that will motivate me, it’s thinking about going to hell. Motivate me???? What is it I’m trying to do? Sorry, I lost my concentration. What was I talking about? Oh yes! Procrastination!

Then I think of this quote by St. Augustine: “God has promised forgiveness to your repentance, but he has promised tomorrow to your procrastination.” Now that’s pretty pithy! And here’s another one that works well for me: “Just do it!”

Consider this… We can never redeem all the wasted time (Ephesians 5:16) so just do it! Do it now!

One final thought… I found this on the internet while procrastinating. Old habits die hard.

Procrastination is my sin.

It brings me naught but sorrow.

I know that I should stop it.

In fact, I will…tomorrow.

~Gloria Pitzer

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Choose Not to Burn Out

Choices change our lives…

By Barbara Dahlgren

Most Christians want to serve but don’t know how to avoid spiritual burnout in the process. To be honest, I’m not sure I know how to avoid it either. At one time or another we all try to “work” our way to righteousness on the spiritual treadmill, desiring to reach some lofty vision we see as the ultimate Christian experience.

We must guard against becoming modern day Pharisees. “Work” oriented goals tend to make us feel just a little superior to others. Keeping a mental list of what we need to do to attain righteousness leaves us living more under law than grace. If we fall into the personal performance trap, it won’t be long before we run out of steam. Performing godly tasks on our own strength instead of God’s can lead to burn out. God’s flame is eternal and never burns out. Our feeble flame can definitely burn out.

Depression, stress, and burnout can have overlapping symptoms, but actually fall into three different categories. Depression is usually linked to a loss and a person’s lethargic inability to face life. Stress produces hyperactivity— emotions become overactive, and the person literally wears out and gets exhausted. But with burnout, there is a lack of motivation and drive – not because of a weakened, physical condition but because the will to do anything is gone. Ideals and hope are lost. There is no excitement about life. The joy in the journey is gone. In other words, “What’s the use?”

Can good, serving Christians suffer burnout? You better believe it! Burnout can be the result of too much service for the wrong motivation. So we must ask ourselves why we do what we do.

Are we trying to impress others? Many try to please others, seeking approval and fearing criticism. Therefore, they have trouble evaluating where their time is best spent or setting up boundaries. They can’t say “no” to others. When their efforts don’t reap the results they hoped, they get disheartened and discouraged. When they can’t live up to their own expectations or the expectations of others, they feel like failures. However, these are not God’s expectations. 

Are we serving in an area that brings us joy? When we minister in areas that match our gifts and talents, we can feel as if we are meant to do this. Some are perfectly happy there, but others get tired of doing the same old thing and may decide to try another area of service – some new endeavor they feel excited about – something they want to learn. They hesitate, fearing others will not be supportive, so they don’t move on. Or worse, people guilt them into thinking if they don’t do their current job, no one will. However, God does not want us to serve out of guilt, but joy.

Are we working for God’s glory? We should be working for God’s glory – not ours – nor just for the good of others. We cannot be the spiritual nourishment for others. Needy people can drain us dry. While it might be fine to let someone lean on us for a short time, the ultimate goal is to get them to lean on God. We can’t do this for them. And if we are trying to do it for them, we are not doing it for God’s glory. We’ll be doing it on our own strength or steam. It’s better to rely on God’s strength and teach others to do the same. 

Consider this… We can spend a lot of time and effort doing things for God He does not require us to do. Workaholic Christians rarely find time for the most important priority – relationship with the living God. Once a relationship develops, the motive of service becomes love, not obligation. It’s not how much we do that counts; it’s why we do what we do. We need to keep our eyes focused on Jesus (Hebrews 12:2). Our lives need to be God centered, not work oriented.

One final thought… Our flames are feeble, but God’s flame is eternal and never burns out.

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Choose to Face Your Doubts

Choices change our lives…

By Barbara Dahlgren

Can one be a Christian and have doubts? I think so.

Exactly what are doubts? One definition is “feelings of uncertainty.” Most Christians have feelings of uncertainty from time to time – especially when facing trials. God doesn’t always give us what we want when we want it, so we might doubt His love for us. Doubt itself is not a sin. Actually, it’s better to face our doubts than pretend they don’t exist.

That’s what David did. He talked his doubts over with God, and he was fairly bold in letting God know how he felt. Just read the Psalms. “How long will you forget me, O Lord? How long will you hide yourself from me?” (Psalm 13:1-3) “Why do you stand so far off, O Lord?” (Psalm10:1) “Why have you forsaken me?” (Psalm 22:1) This was David’s way of asking God to help his doubt. And God always did. We can tell because of the conclusions David reached. All those Psalms end with David acknowledging God’s greatness and trusting His mercy, judgment, salvation, goodness, and love.

Just because we doubt doesn’t mean God doesn’t love us. God loved David. He even said that David was “a man after mine own heart” (Acts 13:22).

What about John the Baptist? He had testified that Jesus was the Son of God (John 1:29, 34). Yet when Herod threw Him in prison, he must have had a little element of doubt. He sent messengers to Jesus to ask, “Are you really the one who was to come, or do we need to look for someone else?” (Matthew 11:2-3) Jesus was not upset by the question. He didn’t chastise John. He told the messengers to go and reassure John (Matthew 11:4-6). Then Jesus told the crowds there had never been another man born of women greater than John the Baptist (Matthew 11:11). That’s pretty high praise for one who had a little doubt.

Peter had not expected Jesus to be arrested, so he had some doubts. Why else would he have denied Christ three times (Luke 22:54-61)? And after Christ’s crucifixion, all the disciples were disheartened and had a few doubts. They didn’t fully understand God’s plan yet. When the women reported Christ’s resurrection, the men thought they were “telling idle tales” (Luke 24:11). Peter ran to the tomb to see for himself.

Then a little later Christ appeared to the disciples. However, Thomas wasn’t with them, so he had some doubts. He said he wouldn’t believe it until he personally saw the print of the nails in Christ’s hands and touched His scars (John 20:24-29). Eight days later Jesus came to Thomas and let him touch His scars. This was not a rebuke. It was Jesus helping Thomas on his spiritual journey. Thomas humbly responded with, “My Lord and my God.”

Jesus didn’t say, “You bad, bad disciples! How dare you doubt?” He was patient and loving towards them. And He is patient and loving towards us.

When Christ appeared to the eleven disciples before His final commission, we are told they worshipped Him, but some doubted (Matthew 18:16-17). Christ had already appeared to them a couple of times, so why doubt? Aren’t we kind of like that? God does so many wonderful things for us but sometimes we still kind of doubt Him when He doesn’t respond the way we think He should.

Now here’s what I find interesting. This scripture indicates they all worshipped Him even though a few doubted. The Greek word here for doubt is “distazo” which means to hesitate and think two different ways at the same time. Maybe the doubters thought, “WOW! There He is. But wait. He was crucified and died. How can this be? But it is!” However, no matter what they thought, they worshipped Him.

Some say doubt is the opposite of faith. I’m not so sure. After all, courageous people have fear; they feel fear but do what is right anyway. I think faithful people can also have doubts. However, their actions are based on their faith or what they believe, not their doubts. Our Christian faith must be deeper than our doubts. All those disciples worshipped Jesus in spite of any wavering some may have felt.

Consider this… Our doubts do not alter the existence of God. God isn’t like Tinkerbell who relies on us to chant, “I do believe, I do believe, I do believe” for Him to spring to life. God exists whether we believe it or not. Jesus loves us whether we believe it or not.

One final thought… Doubts arise from feelings of uncertainty or things we can’t be sure of. Well, we can be sure of God. If we keep our eyes focused on God, we won’t have a lot of time left to doubt. Remember the example of Peter walking on the water. He started to falter when he took his eyes off Jesus (Matthew 14:29-31).

 

 

 

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