Barbara's Banter

From God comes…

From God comes an offer to come to His table and dine with Him.

One of my favorite Bible stories is about Mephibosheth, the son of Jonathan and grandson of Saul. King Saul resented David and tried to kill him because God decided David would replace him as king.

In spite of this, Saul’s son Jonathan and David became best friends. BFFs long before we knew what BFF meant.  

Mephibosheth was five years old when both his father and grandfather died in battle. His nurse was afraid for their lives and hastily fled (2 Samuel 4:4). This resulted in a bad fall that left him lame and unable to walk. He and the rest of his family took refuge and settled in the mountains of Gilead.  

David became king. Years passed, but David never forgot his humble beginnings nor the fact that Saul had been his king and Jonathan his best friend. He asked if there was anyone left from the house of Saul to whom he could show some kindness (2 Samuel 9:1). When he found out that Jonathan’s son was alive, he had his servants find Mephibosheth and bring him to the palace (2 Samuel 9:6).

Mephibosheth fearfully bowed before King David because he had no idea why he was there. Imagine his surprise when David announced he wanted to show him kindness and restore Jonathan’s land to him. Plus, he wanted him to live at the palace in Jerusalem and eat at his table like one of his sons (2 Samuel 9:7). Mephibosheth had a place at the King’s table and ate there continually (2 Samuel 9:11-3).   

What a beautiful picture of loving kindness! Mephibosheth was overwhelmed by King David’s offer. He referred to himself as a “dead-dog” and felt totally unworthy of such favor (2 Samuel 9:8).  

There are some parallels here as we think about our relationship with Christ. Mephibosheth was physically lame and crippled. By the same token, we are spiritually weak and helpless (Romans 5:6). His family had been enemies of David. As descendants of Adam filled with sin, we were considered God’s enemies (Romans 5:10). Yet, God has shown us unbelievable kindness. He has brought us into His family and given us provision, favor, and a place at His table, just like David did for Mephibosheth.

We were lame, forgotten, and unworthy when Jesus found us and invited us to sit at His table. Not only do we dine with Him every time we partake of Communion but we are to be part of the marriage supper of the Lamb. God calls those who are invited to that event blessed (Revelation 19:9). He’s talking about you and me. We will be eating at the King’s table laden with a bountiful feast. It’s good to know that we have a place at His table—now and forever!  

“Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God…”

~James 1:17 (NLT)

From God comes…

From God comes time. Each year when we switch our clocks by springing forward or falling back, I keep wishing they would just pick a time and stick with it. Unfortunately, no one consults me about these decisions. So, I just resign myself to the fact that it is what it is, and then remind myself that time itself is a gift from God.

Yes, time is a gift from God—but a limited one. We don’t know how much time we have to live (James 4:14; Psalm 39:4-5). Therefore, time is a valuable commodity (Psalm 90:12). So, we are admonished to make the most of it (Colossians 4:5; Ephesians 5:15-17).

God has also appointed a time for everything in our lives. Ecclesiastes 3:1 tells us, “To everything there is a season. And a time for every purpose under heaven.” God put the sun and moon in the heavens to mark seasons (Genesis 8:22; Psalm 104:19). He has also given us various seasons or times in our lives (Ecclesiastes 3:2-8). There’s a time to be born and a time to die. There is a time to plant and a time to reap…and so on.

God is not tied to time like we are. Modern life teaches us to expect things to happen quickly. We have learned to rush but not to wait. We want fast food, minute rice, and instant gratification. However, the richest rewards may require us to wait on God’s divine timing (Psalm 27:14). Waiting is not a natural part of our biological chemistry, so it is difficult. We think that waiting robs us of our valuable time, but it is necessary if we are to know the true meaning of trusting God. In fact, while waiting is an excellent opportunity to redeem our time (Ephesians 5:15-16).  

Carl Sandburg once said, “Time is the most valuable thing a man can spend.” Therefore, we must practice using our time wisely.

Believe it or not, God gives us enough time to do what He wants us to do. Plus, God understands the experiences, emotions, and transitions we encounter during our time here on earth and in His wisdom, He gives us time to process them. Through the prompting of the Holy Spirit within us, God can help direct our time and energy wisely.

God’s timing is better than ours. For example, sometimes we may think we have our day perfectly planned, but God has other ideas. That’s His prerogative. We can trust God in these situations. After all, our time is in God’s hands (Psalm 31:15).

“Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God…”

~James 1:17 (NLT)

From God comes…

From God comes wisdom. Wisdom is a good and perfect gift that comes from God and it is ours for the asking (Proverbs 2:6). In fact, we are told if we lack wisdom to ask God for it and He will give it to us liberally (James 1:5).

If any of us lack wisdom? Boy, what an understatement!

A worldly definition of wisdom would be the quality of having experience, knowledge, and good judgment. A biblical definition goes much deeper. Godly wisdom is more than just making good decisions. It is about who we are and what we think.

James tells us that those who are wise conduct themselves appropriately. They do everything in a spirit of meekness and humility. They are not envious, self-seeking, prejudice, or hypocritical. The wisdom from above is pure, peaceful, gentle, honest, fair, and merciful, plus produces healthy fruit (James 3:13-18). It’s the ability to discern and judge what is good and true, so we are not easily led astray.

This kind of wisdom can only come through Jesus Christ because He is the power and wisdom of God (1 Corinthians 1:24). We need Christ to help us react wisely to what happens with gentleness, kindness, mercy, and peace, without selfishness, self-righteousness, anger, and jealousy. No wonder the Bible tells us wisdom is more valuable than gold (Proverbs 16:16).

How do we get this wisdom that God freely gives? We would start by respecting God and appreciating His perspective on everything (Proverbs 9:10). Then we could listen, hear, and heed God’s instruction (Proverbs 8:32). The Bible is full of admonitions on how to live better lives and we are encouraged to internalize this advice (Proverbs 4:13). However, reading the Bible is not enough. We must implement what we learn into our lives. Jesus said, “Whoever hears these sayings of mine and does them is like a wise man who builds his house upon a rock (Matthew 7:24).” Our Rock is Jesus Christ.

Although Solomon was considered the wisest man who ever lived, there is one wiser. His name is Jesus. Jesus spoke about the queen of the South coming to hear the wisdom of Solomon, then went on to say, “…and, behold, a greater than Solomon is here (Matthew 12:42).” He was referring to Himself. What an understatement!

Jesus is wisdom personified. He is the very wisdom of God (1 Corinthians 1:24). Staying close to Jesus give us access to all His treasures of wisdom and knowledge (Colossians 2:3). Wisdom is another good and perfect gift from God to us. Let’s unwrap this gift and use it to reflect Christ in our lives.  

“Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God…”

~James 1:17 (NLT)

From God comes…

From God comes citizenship. I don’t know about you, but the older I get the more I appreciate that my citizenship is in heaven, not on earth. Recently I’ve been singing old hymns reminding me that this world is not my true home. If it were, there would not be much to live for.

The turmoil in the world projects nothing but gloom and doom. We have wars, famines, disasters, diseases, prejudices, greed, injustice, self-centeredness, hatred, and anger. The list is endless. Without God, there are no solutions to these overwhelming problems. There may be temporary “fixes” which unfortunately, usually result in a whole new set of difficult unforeseen issues that will need to be resolved.

Yet, in the midst of all the troubles surrounding us, we are called to be ambassadors to a hurting world (2 Corinthians 5:20). We cannot do this without keeping our focus on God and asking for His help.

When we surrender to Jesus, our citizenship moves from this world to heaven (Philippians 3:20). Our home is in heaven and all who know Christ will have the opportunity to eventually go home. We don’t know when that will be. It could be after a long illness or a sudden accident. But some sweet day God will lovingly beckon us home. Then we will leave the cares and troubles of this world behind.

Until then, we must be Christ’s ambassadors on earth. The definition of an ambassador is a diplomat sent by a country as its official representative to a foreign country. Our citizenship is in heaven, so living on earth is comparable to us being an ambassador for Christ in a foreign country—a country we must live in, but not be a part of (John 17:14-17).

That doesn’t mean we retreat from this world altogether because we need to be the salt of the earth and a light in the world (Matthew 5:13-15). However, as ambassadors for Christ, we must guard against conforming to the patterns of this world (Romans 12:2). If not, we can get sucked into worldly philosophies that influence our values, attitudes, and behaviors which can negatively impact our relationship with Christ.

We are Christ’s representatives. Everything we do or say must reflect Christ. We must let the peace of God rule our hearts. Let Thanksgiving fill our thoughts. Let God’s wisdom dwell in us. Let encouragement, not condemnation come from our lips. Whatever we say or do needs to reflect Christ (Colossians 3:15-17).

This world can be a harsh place, but praise God, we are not citizens of this harsh place. We are citizens of a very forgiving place, a loving place, a place of amazing grace. That is our home—our true home.

“Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God…”

~James 1:17 (NLT)

From God comes…

From God comes redemption plus salvation.

What is redemption? The dictionary defines it as the act of being saved or delivered from sin or evil. Other definitions include atoning for guilt or a mistake, rescuing someone, or paying off a debt.  

In Old Testament times, redemption involved deliverance from bondage by a redeemer who paid a price. For example, if a slave had been captured in battle or coerced into serving one who was not his legal master, his real master could recover this slave by buying him back. It was a legal term for the deliverance of property to which someone had a previous claim.  

In the New Testament, we are exposed to a spiritual understanding of redemption. We have all sinned and fallen short of God’s glory (Romans 3:23). Our condition was one of being a slave to sin. However, Christ’s death paid the price for our sins, so He has redeemed us (Romans 3:24). God has purchased our freedom and we no longer have to be in bondage to sin. Nor must we be bound to Old Testament oppressive laws and rituals (Galatians 3:13; Galatians 4:5). This redemption is only possible through the blood Jesus shed for us when He died (1 Peter 1:18-19; Colossians 1:14).

However, redemption differs from salvation. As we’ve explained, redemption requires a price to be paid and Christ paid that price for everyone (John 3:16-17). It is this redemption that opens the door to salvation which is what God offers because of His great love for us. Salvation is a gift from God that we do not earn, but each individual must acknowledge and accept it in order to receive it (Ephesians 2:8). We must accept God’s love and forgiveness (Romans 10:9-10). It is salvation that saves us from the penalty of sin (2 Timothy 1:9-10). With salvation, we receive all the promises of God including eternal life (Romans 6:23).

Redemption plus salvation are good and perfect gifts—and you can only get them from God.

“Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God…”

~James 1:17 (NLT)

From God comes…

From God comes all of creation. The Genesis account of creation explains that God brought light into darkness and order out of chaos (Genesis 1). God commanded and things were created (Psalm 148:5).

God’s creation is everywhere. We can see His marvelous works whether we are in a fertile valley or a remote mountainous retreat. We can see it in the city or in the country. We can see it in the desert or in the jungle. Everywhere we look we can see evidence of an all-wise omnipotent God through the wondrous things He has made.  

God’s creation testifies to His great power. In fact, all creation praises God (Psalm 148). The heavens declare the glory of God and the skies proclaim His handiwork (Psalm 19:1). The Psalms are full of imageries of creation praising God. The rivers clap their hands and the mountains sing for joy before the Lord (Psalm 98:7-9). The heavens rejoice and the earth is glad (Psalm 96:11-12).  

Not only did God create what we see, but what we can’t see—the visible and invisible (Colossians 1:16). God has filled the world with principles of gravity, physics, chemistry, biology, mathematics, astronomy, and much more which makes flight, electricity, aerodynamics, and so much more possible. God set boundaries so nature and science can coexist (Psalm 104:9). God made Earth a very special place to live (Psalm104). Our very lives are part of God’s creation. We exist by design, not by chance. Therefore, our lives have meaning and purpose.

However, the invisible creation goes much farther because it includes the spiritual realm. Today our vision is limited because we can only see the physical which is temporary because our physical lives are only temporary (Psalm 103:15). We peer through a glass darkly and can’t see the invisible which is so much larger than what we can see, but one day that will change (1 Corinthians 13:12). We will be able to view the unseen spiritual realm which is eternal (2 Corinthians 4:18).

God is our Creator. What great news! As Isaiah said, “Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the end of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and His understanding no one can fathom (Isaiah 40:28).”

“Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God…”

~James 1:17 (NLT)

From God comes…

From God comes help. The bleak truth is that we are inadequate in so many ways. Does that mean we are failures? Of course not, but neither are we totally self-sufficient. If we were, we wouldn’t need God. I don’t know about you, but I desperately need God. Sometimes just facing another day requires help from the Lord.

This point was reinforced for me recently because I have been mourning the loss of one of my dearest friends. Evonne and I had been kindred spirits since the second grade—and believe me, that’s a long time. Fortunately, Evonne was ready to meet her Maker face-to-face. She shared with loved ones that for her “to live is Christ, and to die is gain (Philippians 1:21).” She had lived a long, full life and God had rescued her from the jaws of death more than once. Plus, she had survived the death of her husband and other family tragedies. Now she was diagnosed with liver cancer and ready to start chemotherapy. This was not really her desire, but it’s what everyone wanted her to do. So, she approached the prospect in her usual positive manner. She would have rather just drifted off to sleep.

I flew back to Missouri for a visit. We had a wonderful time—two soul sisters giggling like school girls as we reminisced. One night, before we nodded off for the evening in her king-sized bed, we held hands a bit and declared our sisterly love for each other. That night God granted her wish and she drifted off to sleep, passing into the arms of Jesus. I found her the next morning. She was at peace.

Academically, I know she is with God, but emotionally I miss her so much. She is fine, but I am a mess. Those of us who have lost loved ones know what a struggle it is to let go. Gone are those little inside jokes that only the two of you shared. Gone are the walks down memory you took together. Gone is that sweet encouraging voice letting you know you matter. Gone is the wit, wisdom, and laughter that got you through so many difficult times. The grieving process is not easy, but God knows our frailty and gives us permission to mourn (Ecclesiastes 3:4).

In addition, God offers us help in the direst of circumstances. God is our help in times of pain and trouble (Psalm 46:1).  Life goes on and responsibilities must be fulfilled, so God helps us face each new day. That doesn’t mean we always leap from our bed singing. Sometimes just getting out of bed can be an accomplishment. Turning to God can give us the strength, comfort, and courage we need.

Our help comes from God (Psalm 121:2; Psalm 54:4). Of course, we mustn’t confuse help with taking away our problems, but rather, God helps us cope with them. Let’s face it, if the all-powerful, all-knowing, merciful, grace-filled, ever-present God who loves us unconditionally can’t help us face another day, who can? Thankfully, God has assured us that we are never alone or helpless (Hebrews 13:5-6).

“Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God…”

~James 1:17 (NLT)

From God comes…

From God comes His presence. Of course, God’s presence is everywhere (Psalm 139:7-12) However, when we surrender to Christ, we get the added bonus of the Holy Spirit dwelling in us (1 John 4:13). As we yield to God, His presence transforms us to be more like Him (2 Corinthians 3:17-18).

There may be times in our lives when we actually feel God’s presence. I’m reminded of the old hymn Surely the Prescence of the Lord Is in This Place. The lyrics say we can feel God’s power and grace. There have been times when I’ve sung this hymn with a multi-denominational group and actually felt God connecting us all.

Sometimes we do not feel God’s presence immediately. The scriptural passage that inspired this hymn is about Jacob awaking from an inspiriting dream and saying, “Surely the Lord is in this place and I did not know it” (Genesis 28:16).

Sometimes we don’t feel it at all. Some Christians want a feeling instead of a relationship, so they search high and low for something that is already with them. People who base their relationship with Christ on their feelings, seldom have a stable Christian life. They have not learned that whether we feel it or not, God is with us. Whether we feel it or not, God loves us. Whether we feel it or not, God will never leave or forsake us.

The classic poem Footprints in the Sand illustrates this point. It is about a man who dreamed he was walking on the beach with God. He could see two sets of footprints in the sand. One belonged to him and one to the Lord. However, there were troublesome times in his life where he could only see one set of prints. When he asked God where He was when he needed Him most. God answers, “My dear child, during times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you!”

God’s presence helps us survive the storms of life. Most people don’t know that ships have a little gadget called a gyroscope. It helps stabilize the vessel and keep it on an even keel even though storms are raging. That is what God’s presence does in our lives. When the storms of life begin to rock our boats, God’s presence keeps us stable so we can have peace.     

When Jacob realized God’s presence was in that place, he said, “How awesome is this place!” (Genesis 28:17). How awesome that we have God’s presence with us all the time, whether we feel it or not!

“Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God…”

~James 1:17 (NLT)

From God comes…

From God comes consistency. To be consistent means acting or doing thing in the same way over time, especially so as to be fair or accurate. God is consistent but humans are fickle which means they frequently change and are inconsistent. Humans easily get caught up in feelings and fads, not realizing that feelings can change quickly and fads come and go.

Customs and perceptions change as well. There was a time that full figured women were considered beautiful as portrayed in paintings by the old masters. Pleasantly plump people were a status symbol because it meant they were somewhat wealthy and had plenty of money to eat well. Now being pencil thin is considered beautiful. Denim pants with holes in them once meant you were poor. Now holey (no pun intended) jeans cost far more than those without rips and tears.

Personal feelings are ever changing as well. Feelings are unpredictable, unreliable, and deceptive. One day we are up and the next we are down. Some say, “If it feels good, do it.” Afterwards, those same people might say, “Boy, I wish I hadn’t done that!” What feels good one day may feel horrible the next. Feelings are not facts. Just because we feel something does not make it true. Our feelings can be as fickle as we are and that’s why we can’t afford to let them rule our lives.

However, we can let Jesus rule our lives because He is consistent. Jesus is the same yesterday, today, and forever (Hebrews 13:8). God does not change (Malachi 3:6). We can trust what God says because it is impossible for Him to lie or mislead us (Hebrews 6:18). Even if we are unfaithful, God is always faithful (2 Timothy 2:13). He will never leave or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5).

We can always count on God instead of our feelings. There may be times we feel alone, but God is always there. There may be times we feel unloved, but God always loves us. There may be times we feel forsaken, but God will never forsake us. There are times we feel misunderstood, but God always understands. God is not fickle. We don’t have to worry that He will whimsically offer us salvation on Monday and snatch it away on Tuesday. God fulfills His promises.

In a fickle world, it’s unwise to use absolute words like always, forever, and never. However, we can use those words when referring to God because He is always dependable, reliable, trustworthy, and consistent.

“Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God…”

~James 1:17 (NLT)

From God comes…

From God comes spiritual rest. When we read scriptures about God giving us rest, many people equate it with physical rest. Which is understandable, since most of us are extremely tired and completely exhausted most of the time. Gone are the days when we wake up and cheerily exclaim, “Good morning, Lord!” Most of us hit the alarm button and groggily moan, “Good Lord! It’s morning!!”

Our society wants more, more, more productivity without providing the time and resources to accomplish it. I recently read an article about an overworked “administrative officer robot” experiencing metal fatigue in Gumi City, South Koreas. The robot threw itself down a flight of stairs in an apparent suicide. Witnesses say that before its fatal plunge, the robot was “circling in one spot as if something was there.” (The Week Magazine, June 19, 2024) It’s pretty bad when even the androids are jumping ship. Of course, this illustrates how desperately physical rest is needed. However, in addition, this can also illustrate the restless spirit of those who do not have God in their lives.  

Scriptures encouraging us to rest in the Lord or stating the Lord will give us rest, refer to spiritual rest, not physical (Psalm 37:7; Hebrews 4:1-11). St. Augustine wrote in his Confessions to God, “You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our hearts are restless until they rest in You.” Until we totally surrender and acknowledge our dependence on God, there will be no rest for our souls.

Those who believe in Christ can enter into His rest (Hebrews 4:1). Christ tells us to come to Him and He will give us rest for our souls (Matthew 11:28-30). The Hebrew word in the Old Testament translated as “rest” means “to be at peace,” “to be still,” “to be quiet or calm.” The Greek word for rest in the New Testament metaphorically means “the heavenly blessedness in which God dwells.” Spiritual rest comes through relying on God and having confidence in Him. Only God can give us rest from worry, doubt, confusion, and fear.

Resting in the Lord does not come easily. We must be diligent to actively follow the teachings of Christ (Hebrews 11:9). We must yield and submit which are not natural tendencies. Learning to let go and trust God takes a bit of practice, but turning our problems and anxieties over to Him through prayer can bring us a peace and calm that surpasses all human understanding (Philippians 4:6-8).

Through Jesus, God guards our hearts and minds (Hebrews 4:8). God is in control. When we truly believe God is working all things out for our benefit, we do not have to wander aimlessly in circles like some rabid robot searching for solutions. Nor do we need to fret or be frustrated. We can rest in the Lord.

“Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God…”

~James 1:17 (NLT)