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Choose Not to Make Excuses

One More Year of Choices… By Barbara Dahlgren   I recently read an article about a woman who wanted her husband to put his dirty clothes in the laundry hamper instead of dropping them on the floor. The author went … Continue reading

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Choose Not to Play the Blame Game

One More Year of Choices… By Barbara Dahlgren We live in a society where people do not want to accept responsibility for their actions. If people spill hot coffee on themselves, it’s the restaurant’s fault for making the coffee too … Continue reading

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One More Year of Choices

By Barbara Dahlgren Each New Year we make resolutions to help us change our lives for the better. Although we usually have every intention of keeping them, all too soon they are abandoned because change is hard. Most of us … Continue reading

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Choose to Celebrate Christmas

Another Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren People keep or observe Christmas for a few reasons. For adults, it’s a time for families to get together. For parents, it’s a time to give gifts to their children. For children, it’s … Continue reading

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Choose to Give Gifts of Value

Another Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren Most of us are in the midst of Christmas shopping. Choosing the right gift for someone can be a challenge. Those of us who don’t have money to buy expensive gifts to lavish … Continue reading

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Choose to Smile

Another Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren   After doing a little Christmas shopping at Costco, I smiled at a middle-aged woman who was going in as I was heading for the parking lot. (Actually, I don’t know how old … Continue reading

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Choose to Connect with Others

Another Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren Our brains were designed to be social. Studies show the gray matter between our ears is actually busy every moment, picking up messages and responding. Two-time Pulitzer nominee Daniel Goreman reinforces this in … Continue reading

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Choose to Thank God for Blessings We May Not Know About

Another Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren   A radio talk show host in our area asked people to call in and tell him what influences your life and fills you up.  Then he added, “…but don’t call me and … Continue reading

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Choose to Give Thanks

Another Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren When the Israelites were getting ready to go into the land God had promised them, Moses told them they would prosper. They would have food, shelter, money, livestock, and just about anything they … Continue reading

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Choose to Validate

Another Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren When our granddaughter Sophia was eighteen-months-old, I remember our delight in watching her learn so many new things like walking, talking, and becoming aware of all the wonders around her. What a glorious … Continue reading

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