Author Archives: Barbara
Choose Not to Be Ruled by Feelings
One More Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren If we all followed our feelings, it would be a scary world indeed! Feelings are ever-changing. One day we are up and the next we are down. Feelings are unpredictable and unreliable. … Continue reading
Choose Not to Overcommit
One More Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren Remember the old adage that if we want something done, give it to a busy person. This sounds great, unless we happen to be the busy people getting all that “to do” … Continue reading
Choose Not to Be Lonely
One More Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren We were created to be relational. That’s why solitary confinement in prison is one of the worst punishments. Even when we are antisocial, we will subconsciously respond to others with our “mirror … Continue reading
Choose Not to Forget What God Has Done
By Barbara Dahlgren One More Year of Choices People are forgetful. Maybe that’s why God was continually exhorting them to remember things He had done, or setting up little monuments to help them remember. In Joshua 4, God told Joshua … Continue reading
Choose Not to Blame God
By Barbara Dahlgren One More Year of Choices Some of us are willing to admit that every bad situation is not God’s fault. Sometimes we make poor choices. Sometimes we suffer because of the poor choices of others. And sometimes … Continue reading
Choose Not to Stress When You Feel God Is Not Fair
By Barbara Dahlgren One More Year of Choices Is God fair? Probably not – at least not by human standards… If I had a chocolate cake and eight children who wanted dessert, I would probably take great pains to make … Continue reading
Choose Not to Stress When Life’s Not Fair
By Barbara Dahlgren One More Year of Choices Here’s a news flash for you – and it’s not fake news: Life is NOT fair. While we should all strive to be fair, life does not always reciprocate. It’s not fair … Continue reading
Choose Not to Focus on Failure
One More Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren Guess what? Everyone fails from time to time. Failure is not fatal. Failure is not final. Failure is not the end of the world. We can’t afford for mistakes or set-backs to … Continue reading
Choose Not to Be a Pessimist
One More Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren Last time, we explored the dangers of negative thinking. Those who entertain negative thoughts long enough become pessimists. Pessimists see the worst aspect of everything. They look on the dark side of … Continue reading
Choose Not to Entertain Negative Thoughts
One More Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren We live in a “put-down” society – one that is eager to point out our short comings. We are not thin enough, smart enough, or good enough – and probably never will … Continue reading
