Author Archives: Barbara

Choose Not to Speak Carelessly

One More Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren     Lawyers who battle it out in court have one goal – to win. Therefore, they do not always play fair. Many times they will ask an objectionable question knowing the … Continue reading

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Choose Not to React Negatively

One More Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren While we may not be able to control everything that happens to us, we are still responsible for how we think, act, feel, and respond in any given situation. At times our … Continue reading

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Choose Not to Be Ruled by Feelings

One More Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren If we all followed our feelings, it would be a scary world indeed! Feelings are ever-changing. One day we are up and the next we are down. Feelings are unpredictable and unreliable. … Continue reading

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Choose Not to Overcommit

One More Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren Remember the old adage that if we want something done, give it to a busy person. This sounds great, unless we happen to be the busy people getting all that “to do” … Continue reading

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Choose Not to Be Lonely

One More Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren We were created to be relational. That’s why solitary confinement in prison is one of the worst punishments. Even when we are antisocial, we will subconsciously respond to others with our “mirror … Continue reading

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Choose Not to Forget What God Has Done

By Barbara Dahlgren One More Year of Choices People are forgetful. Maybe that’s why God was continually exhorting them to remember things He had done, or setting up little monuments to help them remember. In Joshua 4, God told Joshua … Continue reading

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Choose Not to Blame God

By Barbara Dahlgren One More Year of Choices Some of us are willing to admit that every bad situation is not God’s fault. Sometimes we make poor choices. Sometimes we suffer because of the poor choices of others. And sometimes … Continue reading

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Choose Not to Stress When You Feel God Is Not Fair

By Barbara Dahlgren One More Year of Choices Is God fair? Probably not – at least not by human standards… If I had a chocolate cake and eight children who wanted dessert, I would probably take great pains to make … Continue reading

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Choose Not to Stress When Life’s Not Fair

By Barbara Dahlgren One More Year of Choices Here’s a news flash for you – and it’s not fake news: Life is NOT fair. While we should all strive to be fair, life does not always reciprocate. It’s not fair … Continue reading

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Choose Not to Focus on Failure

One More Year of Choices By Barbara Dahlgren  Guess what? Everyone fails from time to time. Failure is not fatal. Failure is not final. Failure is not the end of the world. We can’t afford for mistakes or set-backs to … Continue reading

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