{"id":724,"date":"2011-10-16T09:00:19","date_gmt":"2011-10-16T14:00:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.barbdahlgren.com\/?p=724"},"modified":"2011-10-12T21:46:31","modified_gmt":"2011-10-13T02:46:31","slug":"get-real","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/barbdahlgren.com\/?p=724","title":{"rendered":"Get Real"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>We miss the mark by thinking God\u2019s love for us depends on how we are or what we do. We think we must change for God to love us. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Believe it or not, God loves the \u201creal\u201d us! Now we might want to make some changes in our lives, but not to earn God\u2019s love.<\/p>\n

We live in a society that constantly tells us we are not lovable. Media bombards us with subliminal messages that we aren\u2019t thin enough, pretty enough, smart enough, talented enough, good enough and so on. We evaluate ourselves by some lofty, unattainable standard. Let\u2019s face it \u2013 even the most beautiful movie star is air brushed and sometimes enhanced when they appear on a magazine cover.<\/p>\n

These false criteria can lead us to have poor opinions of ourselves. What we think about ourselves can influence how we live our lives. This is sad, because what we think about ourselves, what others think about us and what we think others think about us can all be inaccurate gauges of reality. There will always be someone better looking, more popular and thinner than us and guess what? That\u2019s okay. God created you to be you and me to be me.<\/p>\n

I think there is some wisdom in what Oscar Wilde said. \u201cBe yourself \u2013 everyone else is already taken.\u201d<\/p>\n

Our self worth should come from what God thinks of us \u2013 and God loves us. God doesn\u2019t love us because we are pretty, smart, wise, talented or good. He loves us the \u201creal\u201d us. We don\u2019t have to earn God\u2019s love or our salvation. Salvation is a gift from God. (Ephesians 2:8) If it were based on our actions, we would try to take the credit. We would think our good deeds earned us salvation.<\/p>\n

How wise God is! He knew we could never be good enough to deserve his love, so he just gives it to us. Martin Luther once wrote, “The most damnable and pernicious heresy that has every plagued the mind of man is the idea that somehow he could make himself good enough to deserve to live with an all-holy God.”<\/p>\n

In New Testament times people kept thinking they needed to do something to earn God\u2019s free grace. Such was the case with circumcision. Paul wanted to set the record straight. Becoming circumcised would not earn God\u2019s love. That way of thinking devalues God\u2019s gift. (Galatians 5)<\/p>\n

People spend a lot of time perfecting an image, so they will be \u201cloveable.\u201d I guess it\u2019s hard to believe that someone could love the \u201creal\u201d us, but God does. And he longs to have a relationship with the \u201creal\u201d us. I know it\u2019s hard to believe but God knows our weaknesses and frailties, and loves us anyway. We don\u2019t have to pretend to be something we are not.<\/p>\n

So let\u2019s get \u201creal\u201d with God and let him lavish his real love us.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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