{"id":4501,"date":"2018-04-15T09:00:54","date_gmt":"2018-04-15T14:00:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.barbdahlgren.com\/?p=4501"},"modified":"2018-04-07T00:12:45","modified_gmt":"2018-04-07T05:12:45","slug":"choose-to-be-part-of-the-solutions-not-the-problem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/barbdahlgren.com\/?p=4501","title":{"rendered":"Choose to Be Part of the Solutions, Not the Problem"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yet Another Year of Choices<\/em><\/p>\n

By Barbara Dahlgren<\/em><\/p>\n

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1 Corinthians 8:1 tells us that knowledge puffs up, but love edifies. This is a fancy way of saying \u201cknow-it-all\u201d people rarely enlighten others or improve situations because no one is interested in what they say. However, when the motive is love for others, it is reflected in what we do and say. In other words, it is edifying. To edify means to enlighten or improve.<\/p>\n

The Greek word for edify is \u201coikodomeo\u201d and technically it means to build up. When we cheerfully build others up we become part of the solution, not part of the problem. We become a stepping stone to a good result, not a stumbling block. That\u2019s why we are encouraged to edify one another. (1 Thessalonians 5:11) \u00a0Here are some ways this can be accomplished.<\/p>\n

Cooperate: When we cooperate, we don\u2019t foster a feeling of competition. No one wants to be around those who think they are better than everyone else. Learning to work together is a key to getting anything accomplished. We shouldn\u2019t expect others to do what we are not willing to do ourselves. So be a team player, not a superstar!<\/p>\n

Accept: People want to be accepted for who they are. Acceptance does not mean we condone bad behavior. It just means we don\u2019t judge and condemn. We all have areas in our lives that need changing, but being critical does not bring about healthy change.<\/p>\n

Pursue Peace: The Bible tells us to \u201cpursue the things which make for peace and the things by which one may edify another.\u201d (Romans 14:19) This can be done by not making a big deal out of something that is not a big deal. If we stay calm, pray, and look at something from another\u2019s point of view, our perspective may change.<\/p>\n

Be Considerate: We can start by using words like \u201cplease\u201d and \u201cthank you.\u201d Give a sincere compliment. Be on time. Show up for a commitment.<\/p>\n

Use Nice Words: Cursing, gossiping, and putting others down are not edifying. The Message Bible gives this instruction: \u201cSay only what helps, each word a gift.\u201d (Ephesians 4:29) Even if it is necessary to correct someone, it can be done constructively so it doesn\u2019t leave a person devastated, but rather encouraged to move forward.<\/p>\n

These are just a few ideas. We could all make an extensive list of ways to edify others.<\/p>\n

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Consider this\u2026 When we tear others down instead of building them up, it actually grieves the Holy Spirit. (Ephesians 4:29-30) In other words, God doesn\u2019t like it. Not only do we hurt others, but we rob ourselves of blessings.<\/p>\n

One final thought\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cDon\u2019t find fault, find a remedy.\u201d ~Henry Ford<\/em><\/p>\n

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