{"id":3809,"date":"2017-01-01T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2017-01-01T15:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.barbdahlgren.com\/?p=3809"},"modified":"2016-12-30T22:37:17","modified_gmt":"2016-12-31T04:37:17","slug":"one-more-year-of-choices","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/barbdahlgren.com\/?p=3809","title":{"rendered":"One More Year of Choices"},"content":{"rendered":"

By Barbara Dahlgren<\/em><\/p>\n

\"choiceEach New Year we make resolutions to help us change our lives for the better. Although we usually have every intention of keeping them, all too soon they are abandoned because change is hard. Most of us want changes to instantly happen without any effort on our part. We think if we write them down they will miraculously come to pass. Unfortunately, that\u2019s not how it works.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why for the past two years I\u2019ve resolved not to make resolutions, but to focus on daily choices instead. My 2015 blog posts were devoted to choices. The response was so positive that I continued with another year of choices in 2016. That result was positive as well, so I\u2019m doing another year of choices for 2017, but with a bit of a twist.<\/p>\n

Some choices are proactive, and some are a little more passive but just as important. In other words, what we choose not to do is as important as what we choose to do. On the surface, consciously \u201cchoosing not\u201d to do something may seem complacent, perfunctory, or lazy. I assure you that it is not any of these things. In fact, what we \u201cchoose not\u201d to do can take a great deal of thought and self-control, plus save us a lot of present and future trouble. So this year we will focus on \u201cchoosing not\u201d to do certain things.<\/p>\n

Here are some givens in life: God has forgiven us for our sins. Nothing we can do will ever earn us salvation because it is a gift from God. (Ephesians 2:8) Nothing we can do will make God love us anymore than He already does.<\/p>\n

However, even though God gives us salvation, grace, and love, He does not automatically give us good habits or moral character. Those qualities are determined by the choices we make.<\/p>\n

Consider this\u2026Right choices bring peace of mind; bad choices bring difficulty.<\/p>\n

God does not need to zap us when we do something wrong, because wrong choices bring their own penalties. When we make wrong choices, we punish ourselves. It\u2019s the cause and effect principle. What we sow, we reap. The seeds we sow today determine the harvest we reap tomorrow. Although God always forgives us when we make poor choices, the effects remain and we have to deal with and live with them. Choices set off a chain of events which shape our lives, and sometimes the lives of those around us.<\/p>\n

While it is true that time and chance happen, many of our problems could be avoided if we trained ourselves to make better choices. A lot of trials are brought on because of our poor choices; other trials may not be our fault, but still we must choose how to respond to them. So there is always an element of choice in everything we do.<\/p>\n

The Bible is full of exhortations encouraging us to walk in the way of the Lord. As we read the Bible we can listen for God\u2019s voice whispering to us, \u201cThis is the way, walk ye in it.\u201d (Isaiah 30:21) God exhorts us to do this or don\u2019t do that, but the choice is ours.<\/p>\n

So here we go with one more year of choices! If we resolve to day by day make better choices, we will be a lot happier \u2013 and so will everyone around us.<\/p>\n

\"Disney<\/p>\n

Some choice quotes about choices\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u201cIt\u2019s not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.\u201d ~Roy Disney, co-founder of Walt Disney Productions<\/p>\n

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\u201cWe all make choices, but in the end our choices make us.\u201d ~Ken Levine, video game designer and author<\/p>\n

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\u201cIt is our choices that show what we truly are far more than our abilities.\u201d ~J.K. Rowling, author<\/p>\n

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\u201cWhen it snows you have two choices: shovel or make snow angels.\u201d ~Anonymous<\/p>\n

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\u201cDo not envy a man of violence and do not choose any of his ways.\u201d ~Proverbs 3:31<\/p>\n

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“One\u2019s philosophy is not best expressed in words. It is expressed in the choices one makes. In the long run, we shape our lives and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And the choices we make are ultimately our responsibility.\u201d ~Eleanor Roosevelt<\/p>\n

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